Relationships Online......... by Ravi.

The technology has changed the view towards manythings. Online relationship are just another example. When this cam into existance there was a willing to make it helpfull for the people...but wht is happening now? Only few people believe it in real, but there is no real feelings... There are a lot of people who are just hiding themselves in the virtual world just missusing this great environment for lust. I was trying to think what are the problems?

Online relationships are good, just if there is a belief. whenever we opt for a marriage site , the both of looking partners have belief that they need someone to select and then they make it in real. But normaly there is no willing to make it real kind of timepass. Let's rethink the use of the online relationships, make them better, talk in real , not to misuse. Start only if there is willing to make it in real...but people like that are very few..!!!!

Expectation..............by Ravi

When ever i think of something, normally atleast for someone it is expectation. Expectations make relations worst. I was trying to analyse why this expectation comes, interestingly i found that expeactation is not only by someone, we also expect many things from our innerself. All the expectations outside is just a reflection of expectations inside your own.

"We are suffering in some worst in life, it is not cause there is something worst. It is cause there is liking of suffering by your own. You are suffering cause you wana suffer. You don't wana get rid of it. A practical example is when someone says that i don't love you..we take this as a cause of suffering. We are stick to it, we want to be a DEVDAS. This is suffering, if we can stop thinking about that love (which is now no where), then we are out from suffering and expectation. So suffering is another aspect of expectation...!!"

Ishq ko rog maar dete hai, Akal ko sog maar dete hain,
Aaadmi khud ba khud nahi marta doosre log maar dete hain...

The day with pain...!

hi folks,

Since 6.30 AM i'm living in the pain. When i woke up in the morning (usually it was 11.00AM) i was unable to move my body, there was a pain in my neck..upto middle back. I requestd anshul to rub some IDODEX, n it was okey for finishing daily stuff. After tht i thought of connecting to the world. When i came here, Pain was increasing.... and i sat on the chair, n still typing in pain. I was dicussing this with Ashwani and he told tht there are two aspects of pain in neck..

1) You have a complete mess up in ur head so pain is there reflected in neck.

2) You didnt slept properly, so you should use proper bed and sleeping positions.

When i was here thinking that wht is the mess up in my mind. Realised that there are many, feeling of being alone, fear of future, state of undecided. I slept properly but sometimes i bent myself and i was looking for the reason of that , and it is because of feeling of lonelyness. I was shocked to know that, i am having a feeling of lonelyness and still i dont know..!

How this can happen? Feeling of something which is not with you, can affect like that? what are your views ?

Delay ..... it hurts anytime, anywhere! .... By Ravi

Delay..means deadly..i wud like to say. delay create problems...always what ever the related object may be. Today i was attending a presentation by Professor Joseph i Arne. frm University of Catolognya Barsilona, Spain at my ReTIS lab(http://retis.sssup.it). Professor was giving overview about how to control a real system behavior in a expected manner. At the mean time he was addressing "delay"...... after listening his thought, my listening was delayed.... it went into another world. Here is what he said..

Delay creates a problem, it delays the execution of tasks running. In real time, it should not happen or try to avoid it. In general real time is system related to time frame directly, we are planning to over come delay, for tht time which already occured..this causes a lot of faliures in the systems like path finder, Coloumbia mission...air plane crashes & all.

After listening him i thought this happens to our real life very much. We do something, and when results are out we think a lot, why result was unexpected? why ? and we start thinking about how this happened. And we can see there was a delay..either in action, or either in feeling or thinking or realisation about the fact related to the problem we were trying to solve....thing already happend & then we are trying to overcome the real delay which causes the unexpected.. Wht a delay..which affected past & predicting future...if we can realise this delay soon before their arrival we could do miracles... just what some geat thinkers have already given...

"It's not efforts or inteligence or greatness of
mine...it's timming & willing. Doing right thing at right time.."

So i wish frm now onwards no more delays..if some..:( oh almighty god! help me, realising them before they arrive....

just a random thought ...By Ravi

It is just 11.30 here in pisa, still in the lab since morning 9.30. So around 14 hrs constantly i was connected to the world. By the mean time i did a lot of surfing chatting music listening and eye catching..When i am about to leave to Home, i am thinking wht i did whole day, it was just a pleasure of being connected to the world. There is no-one there for me as my lover, but there are some close friends of mine, for my pleasure of talking with them i was there. When i analysied it again and again, one interesting thought came into my mind... i was there cos i wanted to hide myself frm reality. i was there cos i dnt want to be alone, at least virtually i am with a lot of people. Things will go on like this, but who cares....tht is my life ! More virtual than real. Some people say tht this may become the level of saturation...let's Hope wht i may become..!

Hey You ..... By Ashwani

Have you ever noticed, when you point out to anybody, only one fingure it towards the person and 3 are towards you. Be aware, you are much responsible than the person you pointing. And what about 5th one?? Where is Your Thumb position...it-s always up towards sky, towards GOD, towards your Fortune..... Are you telling to GOD that i'm pointing this person, you are the witness..

End of Vacation ... By Ravi

Today it is the last day of my vacation time, this was not a vacation time for me. It was like 24x7 online time..ha ha ha ha Now frm tomorrow onwards again classes and thinking is mainly devoted towards studies rather than otherway. I'm anyways as this vacation is ending in a such way with all the experiences online. Thanks to Ravindran Ganapathi for telling me such a nice spot to be there in blogspot. He made me record my feelings. I met many people thru their blogs some of them are really best i wud say. So today is day which is known as italian independence day, during world war it was occupied by some coutry (No idea which..) so on may 1 they left. They are celebrating, since last night, there is music behind me, i'm just listening music not lyrics, lyrics are of the some decent thinkers over blog. Why this war things happen? is it required? hmm.. i guess it is required. Altough we dont want but for a long peace it is required. After war there is deep silence..all are in peace, no one is there... and two egos have killed a lot of living beings, but this goes on. We are human, best creature of God but we will be like tht .......

Hazaro khwahishe aisi ki har khwahish pe dam nikle,

Bahut nikle mere armaan .. fir bhi kam nikle......

Relationships...A look

Human is "Social Animal", so it is obvious that human always looks for a relationships. The level and face of relations may change, but evryone needs relations. A relationship is nothing but just a giving a personal space to other in your space. often we see fight, hate, loneliness in relations. In my opinion it is not important that how you say that "I LOVE YOU", bt important is that how much you give to your relation.Any relation can be thought of a balanced composition of intimacy and independence. Wrong proportion of anything will lead to worst. All this proportion depends upon individual to individual. So be carefull to your relation. In my opinion there are three words which are much more important than most souted three words "I LOVE YOU"....and they are Truthfulllness Openness Faithfullness All three little words really matter, they create a honor system between the two person who are in relation. So friends, think over it, if u really wana make a good relation with anyone just be truth, open and faithfull. Good Luck for the best ever relation..God bless You.

Life is all about ending. If at the end you were satisfied by it, you are successfull. Life sucks cause try how much you can you will never be free . So let's think another way....

"Life is not measured by thebreaths we take, .......

but by themoments that take our breath away"

and in hindi...

Zindgi se koi ummeed na rakh

zindgi kabr me samayi hai,.....

Jaan akeli hai ,azaad nahi,

Zindgi maut ban ke chhayi hai..

Love is Jealous.. By Ravi

Well this may be the inspiration from Osho Rajnish, but i think he is right, ....absolutely right. This is all about so called LOVE between two people. You love someone means you want to make that person your personal property, by making personal you are sure that you can make love.

"You love cause you can not see that person loving anyone else or being loved by anyone else."

Some thing bad... By Ravi

Initially i was posting at tiwariravi.blogspot.com but during changes in look i lost my blog. But it dosnt matters i am still there with new hope...